There is Hope for Your Marriage following Infidelity…
Discovering that you have been cheated on and lied to is a painful and traumatic experience that can cause feelings of fear, despair, anger and loss. If you were unfaithful, realizing the depth of the pain caused to your partner and the guilt associated with it is often unbearable.
However, there is hope, but getting over the betrayal takes a skilled, experienced therapist. With over 20 years as a marriage counselor and expert in recovery from infidelity, I have helped hundreds of couples and individuals rebuild trust, restore intimacy and grow deeper in their relationships.
I offer a positive approach that helps couples reconnect emotionally. If you are headed toward divorce, try me first — I have helped many couples when all else has failed. When best, I offer Tandem Marriage Counseling. We can meet individually for a portion of the sessions if we determine it is the best approach.
Common Questions About Infidelity
Do you think it’s possible to save my marriage after infidelity?
Yes definitely, but you will need a skilled therapist to help you work through the process. In my 20+ years of experience, I have helped many couples overcome the pain, anger and loss following an affair and build a strong, fulfilling marriage.
Is it true “once a cheater always a cheater?” Will I be able to trust that my partner will be faithful in the future?
In my experience, if the person who cheated is truly sorry and remorseful, and understands the full consequences of their actions, infidelity is most often not repeated. A therapist can help the person who was unfaithful examine why it occurred and help ensure it won’t happen again.
Will I or my partner be able to forgive and trust again? It is possible to rebuild a trusting relationship?
I recommend working together on this in therapy. There are behaviors you both can do to grow in emotional Intimacy and learn to trust again.
What about sexual intimacy after an affair — can a couple overcome the challenges and re-establish intimacy?
Yes it is possible to achieve with the support of an experienced therapist. I have worked with many couples to find healing to reconnect emotionally and sexually.